Journey

An Okada or a Keke Napep a.k.a Tricycle would be sufficient to move around within the city but would not be sufficient to move to another state far from yours, a bus would be better but a bus wouldn't be ok for you to make a trip into another country outside your continent, a plane would be perfect for that but you can't use a plane to move within your street, your legs are sufficient etc.
My point is, for every phase of our lives there are people we need and after that phase is over we might not really need them again. The fact that someone helped you get a job don't mean you have to marry them, the fact that I helped you a great deal don't mean we have to be best friends. Sometimes we want the people who helped us get through a phase of our lives get into the next one with us, so we try to make it work and end up frustrated.
Imagine trying to use a use a car to travel from your continent into another. Don't make sense right, that you guys were besties in uni don't mean you'd be besties forever. When certain relationships are dead with a capital letter D, don't frustrate yourself trying to make it work. Remember the illustration used, know when your journey with a person or thing is over, say thank you and don't be so addicted to a particular way of doing stuff that you're blinded to the fact that no matter how hard you try it won't work and would just keep you stagnated. Move on.

Plug-In

The light came on and it was time to watch cable television, i switched on the TV and nothing was showing, hmm what's this one called. Everything looked perfect but yet nothing was showing then i decided to check the wires and there it was, the wire wasn't connected, i got it plugged in and it came one.
Sometimes in life, things might look perfect but something isn't just right, there seems to be a vacuum which nothing can fill unless we plug into God, the chief source of life. Plug your academics, relationships, career in fact everything that has to do with you into God and by that i mean, submit it all to God and ask Him to take control and when you do that, you'd be the one to testify of the benefits. So, if your life hasn't been plugged into God yet pls pray the prayers that end this post, I cannot over emphasize on the benefits, just taste and see yourself.
And if you haven't given your life to Christ yet please pray the prayer below..
Lord Jesus, i confess my sins and i ask that you please forgive me , please come into my life and be my Lord and My personal Saviour Amen.
If you just prayed this prayer from your heart please send a mail to talkwithjane01@gmail.com or call 08177765189. I have a gift for you.

Wedding Palava

If you just walked down the aisle last week, congratulations but i seriously hope you aren't doing what the person in this story did. Before i go on and this is for the records, marriages are beautiful and there are strong stable marriages but there are still failed ones which could have been avoided if they knew certain things and that's what i try to do I learn from them myself. Pls note that these stories are experiences of different people and if it looks anything like yours, its purely coincidental plus genders can be changed for privacy sake. And if you want to share yours, send a mail to talkwithjane01@gmail.com

A lady who was about to be wedded to the man of her dreams realised some months before the wedding that her husband to be was married with 2kids. The wickedness in the hearts of people is heartbreaking, strong enough to cause a heart attack, sometimes love makes us blind or maybe the rush to get married or trust, i don't know what it is but something makes us less investigative of the people we're dating or about to get married to.
During a mans burial, it was shocking to find out that this man was married to two women who thought the one man, one wife thing existed in their marriage life, only to realise that they had a co-wife wife wife and their kids had a step mom. Sad story but unfortunately these things happen. Ask questions even without the knowledge of your partner we don't want surprises springing up. Most importantly, ask for God's guidance before you get married . I pray you have the marriage of your dreams.

Motivational Monday

I don't know if you've read about Alexander Eiffel, the man who birthed and turned into reality the construction of the Eiffel Tower even when all odds were against him. There was even a protest against the tower which most people at the time called "ugly" but today, almost everybody wants to go there and take pictures as well. But this wouldn't have happened if he gave into pressure.
My question to is will you give up on your dreams of becoming somebody simply 'cos the people around you don't like you or your ideas? Before you give up 'cos of pressure, remember Eiffel, the same people who mock your dreams would still be the same people to celebrate you when you make it. Don't give up, prove them naysayers wrong. I pray God will bless your sincere endeavours In Jesus Name Amen.

The Real Deal

You know when you buy unpeeled groundnuts and peel it, the back comes out but it would be very stressful and maybe silly to try to pick the groundnut especially if its much, so the most logical thing to do is to blow on the groundnuts and the chaff just flies out 'cos they are light but the groundnut stays.
Well, that my friend is what happens when you go through challenges and trials, when the problems around you feels like they could take your life, in those times would you know who the real deal is. When the wind blows, chaff would leave, when problems come, fake friends would leave. Don't cry when they abandon you 'cos its actually for your own good. Instead of crying about the friends that left, why don't you appreciate those that stayed. Call them up today and say "THANK YOU".
If you're going through something horrible and it feels like you're alone, you are not, God is there for you, just call out to Him in prayer 'cos He's the only one who will never leave no matter what. God is the real deal cos he will never leave nor forsake you even when everything else does.
And if you haven't given your life to Christ yet please pray the prayer below..
Lord Jesus, i confess my sins and i ask that you please forgive me , please come into my life and be my Lord and My personal Saviour Amen.
If you just prayed this prayer from your heart please send a mail to talkwithjane01@gmail.com or call 08177765189. I have a gift for you.

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