Everybody at one point in their lives had someone who just knew how to get to them. You could tell the whole world NO but once it's comes to them, whether you want it or not, you just say "yes". At a point, it starts getting frustrating 'cos it now looks like that person is controlling you and making you do things you don't want to do. I don't know if you're in such situation, but there's something you can do, it may be hard at first but its worth doing.
Learn to say NO without any further explanation and if they ask why, just say "for reasons best known to me, that's my final answer and don't bother pushing it 'cos I've made up my mind" try as much as possible to end the conversation at that point by walking out or dropping the call. Know the tactics they use and know how to tackle them when they use such approach. Standing up and facing them by telling them that they can't manipulate or control you is key and if they keep trying, keep resisting them. You're not a coward you can do it.
Learn to say NO without any further explanation and if they ask why, just say "for reasons best known to me, that's my final answer and don't bother pushing it 'cos I've made up my mind" try as much as possible to end the conversation at that point by walking out or dropping the call. Know the tactics they use and know how to tackle them when they use such approach. Standing up and facing them by telling them that they can't manipulate or control you is key and if they keep trying, keep resisting them. You're not a coward you can do it.
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