Medical experts would tell you that its better to let a treat a wound before covering it. So if you had a wound and covered it immediately, there a huge possibility that the wound could get deeper and worse, thereby creating more problem. Why all this analysis about wounds? Well, i just want to drive home a point. If you've been hurt before, maybe you were betrayed or blackmailed, you should let your emotions flow, its okay to cry and talk about it.
Most times we are hurt and we just want to cover it up so that people don't think we're weak thereby hurting ourselves even more, I'll explain better with my own experience.
I was badly hurt, emotionally ofcourse, and everyday I put on a bold front, even when it was obvious I was hurting, I did this and one day I couldn't take it anymore, I broke down, I got to a point where I just had to talk about it 'cos I i felt i was losing my mind. Am naturally strong, or I love to think I am lol but there's so much even the strongest can take. So next time you're deeply hurt, i recommend that you talk to God about it in prayer, then talk to a good friend as well. Remember, its okay to cry but its not okay to remain in that hurting state, let your emotions flow all you want to but pls don't do anything stupid, get over it and get moving, the world needs a strong person like you. Don't use drugs, sex and alcohol to cover up your pains, it only makes it worse. If you need someone to talk to, you can call me on 08177765189. God bless you.
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