Last week ended with lots of people tying the knot and saying "I Do". We all love weddings and most of us attend although we weren't invited, which is not a bad thing tho until we get bounced lol.
My main focur today tho is on borrowing to wed, sometime ago, a couple was arrested during their wedding reception 'cos they borrowed so much money to wed. This is a true life story, you should have seen the way people fled, the couple ended up spending their first nights as married people in a cell. I get the idea of using the money gotten from wedding to make up for the money they spent or borrowed but the sad truth is that most times you get less of what you spent as most people just come to eat. We all want to have the wedding of the year forgetting that months later, most people forget what your wedding looked like.
So my question is this, are you having an extravagant wedding 'cos you want to feel among and rub it on peoples faces or because its necessary. A lady was mocked for having a dry colourless reception but today, she's living the life, the good, rich comfortable life i mean, nobody remembers that dry reception anymore. If you can't afford to serve rice on that day, then share snacks, a wedding is just for a day, the main stuff is the marriage. The people you're borrowing money to please won't be there to help you pay back or bail you.
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