Fear of Being Fateful(Thanatophobia)

Once bitten, twice shy many times bitten, fear kicks in, this last quote by yours truly was the situation that Favour (name changed) found herself in .Pls note that these stories are experiences of different people and if it looks anything like yours, its purely coincidental plus genders can be changed for privacy sake. And if you want to share yours, send a mail to talkwithjane01@gmail.com.

I love to be straightforward as i can. I am afraid of being faithful or should i say am getting over the fear of being faithful. Being a woman makes it sound odd 'cos men are generally the ones that are perceived to be like that . This fear started when my ex boyfriends broke my heart. My 1st relationship was amazing and i really loved him and was so faithful that I was blind to the fact that he was cheating even when it was glaring me in the face. I was heart broken when u found out but i moved on.
The next relationship started well but still ended with me getting seriously heartbroken. This terrible pattern continued till my 4th relationship i think and then i made up my mind never to be faithful to a guy So then i started to not only double date but i also triple date, it was fun because now i didn't have to bother about being cheated on 'cos i always had someone else to fall back on. Mind you, i wasn't having multiple sex partners so don't start thinking i was and before you start throwing stones at me, am done with that way of life sha. I don't double date no more 'cos i realized i was kind of making myself cheap and i had to lie alot and cover my tracks which i suck at tho. I've decided to be that faithful person again but this time around, with more wisdom because heartbreak i tell can turns you into a monster. I've decided to be that faithful person again but this time around, with more wisdom because heartbreak i tell can turns you into a monster. ***
I always love to draw out lessons from these stories as usual there are many lessons in this one. All i can say is don't let people's ugliness make you decide to be ugly. When you fail, rise up, don't join the losers club. Just that next time you be wiser and as the Bible advises us, if you lack wisdom, ask God in prayers,he'll give you