We all know that what you allow to continue, continues but we haven't taken time to observe that what you allow to continue, sooon overpowers you and before you know what's happening, you lose control over it. Am writing this in in respect to the increased senseless cases of physical abuse in relationships. I really don't understand how a guy that you're not sure of a future with will constantly use you as a punching bag.
Things like this start out with slaps and then you get angry threatning to leave the relationship if he tries it again, but you still stay nevertheless 'cos he begged and shed crocodile tears. Months later, he slaps you again and the same routine plays out, this time you're too deep in love and you're like, 'afterall he apologized , maybe he'll change if i put up with him and I should doing things that makes him beat me' sorry hun, but that is super story 'cos later he beats you like a child and gives you that rubbish 'am beating you 'cos its my way of correcting you' and then one day he beats you blue black, purple and red and then you sit back and start to wonder what went wrong, how did you get to this point that you feel weak, vulnerable and powerless.
Darling, let me help you out here, remember the first time he hit you, and you stayed back in the relationship? That was the day you gave him the unspoken access to keep on hitting you. You aren't married, leave while you can still walk with your legs please , i know you're in love and all but your life is more important. If he disfigures you or beats you to death, he'll move on with someone else. And if you're a male that's in the habit of beating ladies , here's what i have to tell you, calling you a man is an insult to real men 'cos they know how to treat their partners. Just stop that callous act and do something meaningful with your hands.
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