Pretence

I can't even pretend to be her friend anymore she said.. Below is a true life of sandra (name changed) who is torn between confronting a fake friend or just playing by the rules. Pls note that these stories are experiences of different people and if it looks anything like yours, its purely coincidental plus genders can be changed for privacy sake. And if you want to share yours, send a mail to talkwithjane01@gmail.com *

Hate would be a strong word to use, so i won't say i hate her rather, i dislike her. Its very heartbreaking when a supposed best friend turns out to be the one backstabbing you. I first started noticing this when she texted a guy that was clearly interested in me, asking if he missed her. She was doing this 'cos this guy was spending on me. Later, she started doing stuff to try and get his attention. I knew all of this stuff but kept quite and she doesn't know that I know , so it happened that i left town and she became madam. Couldn't she just let me leave the guy. The most annoying part is that i don't even have her male e friends numbers on my phone, but here she was, constantly calling this guy. Am so fed up of her, there's no connection between us and I don't know if am to confront her or just keep on pretending 'cos am hurt.
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Smh! Stories like this makes me wonder if there are trustworthy people..... of course they're are good people, am not neglecting that fact. As for her question, staying in a dead relationship will only leave you with more regrets and heartaches, it would be nice to just walk out of that friendship, forgive her and move on. A betrayal from a friend is more painful than the knife cut from an enemy.