People that love to argue and prove that they're always right and can never be wrong was the reason a journey lasted longer than it should have. So this woman was in a bus and didn't know where she was going to but refused to ask for direction, it was hours after they crossed her destination that she told the driver where she was supposed to drop.
"Madam, we've passed that place o, wait till we reach the next stop so that i can put you in another bus going there" and that was how the trouble started. This woman called her children and told them that the driver was trying to kidnap her, this was a bus filled with 12 people, i think, she told the driver to turn the bus around and take her back. After hours of shouting and wasting time, she still took another bus back, so what did she gain.
Am not saying you should let people trample on your right but you should know when you're at fault and beg (that's something people find very hard to do these days) . In the case above, it was clearly her fault. Here's another twist to this.
Someone was having chickenpox which as we all know is very itchy especially when the sun is shinning bright, when she got to her destination, she paid only to realise that the money was torn and that was her last card, she had no money left. The driver insulted and scolded her but later let her go. Ofcourse, she was at fault but she was wise enough to beg, imagine she started to raise her voice under that hot sun, your guess is good as mine.
Most of us have let so much pride overshadow our sense of reasoning that we don't even know when to say "Am Sorry". Its not that hard as it would save you a whole lot. Sit back and think of times where am sorry would have saved the day but you decided to be heady instead and how badly things turned out. Btw, all genders are guilty of this.
Very true. Thanks for sharing. You are doing great.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate. Thank you very much.
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